As we embark upon another new year and
leave the holiday season of 2015 behind, many of us will default to the old
faithful, yet unproductive task of making another list and checking it twice.
What list, you ask? That would be the list of resolutions we all focus on
through the first few weeks of January before abandoning them altogether by
Valentine's Day. Going to the gym three times a week will turn into “I’ll
double up next week.” Starting that new business and quitting your job will become
“the savings account isn't big enough yet.” So, we will store our professional
and personal goals away with the Christmas tree to save for another year.
Why does it seem that we never completely
fulfill our resolutions? Why aren’t we happy with where we are at the end of
each year? The answer is this: we are attempting to change our outside circumstances
before changing what lies within. Just like smile or tears of sadness falling
from our eyes do, our outside circumstances, to a large extent, reflect who we
are on the inside. We are highly influenced, more than we may realize, by our
beliefs, our thoughts, our expectation, and our outlook. Therefore, in order to
lose the weight and keep it off, obtain the career we really want, remain
happy, or reach whatever goal we need to meet in order to feel successful, we
must first change our beliefs and our thoughts. We must analyze our beliefs and
our expectations and goals to determine if they line up and coincide. We cannot
expect to create greatness with a mediocre outlook. Conducting this analysis is
the first rung, or step, on the ladder to success.
So, how do we change what is on the
inside? Where do we start? You have already taken the initiative by reading
this far! Through my readings and studies of the law of attraction, goal-setting,
and success, I have made many discoveries that I wish to share with others.
With each post, it will be my hope that you, too, can learn how to change your
life and external circumstances by changing your own thoughts and expectations.
What successful achievers and teachers
like Lisa Nichols, Bob Proctor, James Allen, Napoleon Hill, and others whom I
will reference here have known and taught for decades is that success and
happiness start within. If you are willing to keep an open mind and consider
the time-tested information included in this blog, you will find that the
ladder to success can be climbed by anyone, not just a select few. It won’t be
easy: The ladder to your goal may be steeper than that of others. Some will be short,
while others will reach much higher. It doesn’t matter against which goal your
ladder leans or how long it takes to get there. What is important is that we
are able to endure the climb. Together, we will work to conquer the first rung
of the ladder by creating greatness within. Only then will we see greatness
manifest in our lives.
Hey great blog!!!! Great inspiration for me as I start a new journey in my life. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading, Farrah! I hope you can continue to come back and find new inspiration each week to keep you going throughout your journey!
DeleteAmazing insight. I love the way you used "we" as a reference to show that it is something as a society we have created, and as a society we need to redeem.
ReplyDeleteCan't wait for the next one. Keep them coming!
Yes! I also want others to know that they are not alone in what they are going through! Too many times, individuals hold things in for fear of judgment, embarrassment, or other negative expectations. But, what they fail to realize is that "we" all have likely gone through, are going through, or will go through many of the same things. And since this is so, then "we" can also go through a transformation together to reach success!
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